I’d give you a sample of my to-do list, but it’s spread out across three notebooks and a clip board.

Really, things are a little outrageous right now.

But I can see the way ahead, and though the road is full of rocks and steep hills, there is a way, and I know we’ll make it.

The Biodynamic Conference is this weekend.  That’s NOW. (Don’t be shy – come on out.)  This is a good thing, cause that means there’s not much more I can do besides show up and love on everybody there.  That’s the best part.  I’m exhausted by it, but in the most wonderful way.

Then there are the gardens.  Time to put them to bed.  We harvested the sweet potatoes and they are tremendous.  There are still some cowpeas to pick, the garlic to plant, the trellises and tomato cages to pull down, the herb garden to weed, onions to string up for storage, remay to unroll, cover crops to sow, and a couple more experimental crops to oversee (more on that later), but we’re getting there.

weedy herbs

I’d like to make some echinacea tincture – it’s going to be some work to get to it.

Of course, all that has to be done before my Fellow Man departs for his next round of assisting at the AVI Yoga Teacher Training.  For two weeks.  Oh my.

And then there’s the sale in Cookeville, for my Other Mother’s estate.  That’s a different level of doing, in-town, running around, packing and moving and feeling the waves of emotion that accompany this kind of work, inside and out.

I haven’t listed the work of making beds, sweeping floors, cooking meals, or doing dishes.  Or homeschooling, or knocking those cobwebs off the windows that really need cleaning, or reading Goodnight Moon five more times before dinner.levon squash

So, when I manage to roll out of bed for the few minutes of the morning before the kids notice I’m gone, it’s fair to say there’s already a lot on my mind.  Getting quiet in myself is no small task.  But I have to try.

Amazingly, even a little effort goes a long way.  When I can grab a few minutes for a short personal self-care ritual in the morning, a little yoga snack, breathing, prayer, and mindfulness, my day feels more focused, and my capacity to live and love is better actualized.

I believe that the little bit of yoga, meditation, prayer time leads me to have better discernment.

Used to be, I didn’t like that word.  Discernment.  It felt negative, even judgmental.  But my mind is opening to its possibilities now.

I have too many things to do.  I cannot do them all in one day, or even many days.  Choosing the most important and effective use of my time and life’s energy is a function of discernment.  It’s not that some things don’t deserve to be done, and done well.  They all need my attention.  But with a discerning mind, I can know and accept that the weedy herb bed will wait a little longer, because doing more weeding now will make for a later dinner, a later bed-time and a stressed out family.  I can discern that, as much as I would like to wash the window screens, sweeping the crumbs from the floor is more important because there’s also a load of laundry to be done and Lulah and I really need to do some reading together.

And what I really love is that, even though it’s gaze is unwavering, the discerning mind can also be compassionate.  I don’t feel like a slouch or beat myself up, when I start the day with focus.  From that quiet place inside, fixed steady in the quiet of the morning, I can let go of what cannot be done in the day, and add it to another list, after the weekend has passed.  I’m not just running willy-nilly from one job to another, never feeling like anything gets done well enough, soon enough.  Of course there are days when that happens, but it’s certainly not comfortable.

I hope you can find this for yourself, too.  You don’t need an intermediary to have some peace.  It’s always there for you, if you can take a step toward it.  Make a place for yourself where you can safely sit in the cave of your heart, and from there, walk clearly into your day, whatever it may bring.okra sun

5 thoughts on “busy

  1. Coree, It was wonderful seeing you this weekend. Thank you for all the work you did for it and thank you for the women’s circle, I really needed that. I had just made my to do list and goal list for the week before reading your “busy” post. Phew!, I feel very similar, it is nice to know I’m not alone.
    Thank you for sharing. I hope you get some wonderful sleep tonight.

    • Thanks Lindsay – so glad you were there. I’m glad the circle hit home for you. We’ll do that again. Take care and earn your good night’s sleep.


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