Years and years ago, when I was just a fresh little bachelorina, flying around making friends with wonderful people everywhere, I had the fortune to stumble into this lovely family and one of their lovely traditions.
Ringraziamento (in short – thanks – in Italian)
Each year they invite folks they know and love to share a list of what they’re thankful for, as well as what has inspired them in the past year. I haven’t seen my friend in over ten years now, and her family for even longer, but they still extend this warm tradition to share with me, and for that, I’m thankful.
The rules are basic – leave off the obvious things – job, family, health – include books, movies, recipes, places, all the rest.
Here’s my list for this year – feel free to comment with some of your own.
- Snow flurries on Thanksgiving Night.
- Homeschooling children, for the time we get to spend together, all the time, and the accompanying reminder that I have a LOT of spiritual work to do.
- Ditto for self-employment.
- A good growing season, an abundant harvest, and its end.
- Reading aloud, with my children, and my husband.
- Honest heat from the wood burning stove, and enough wood to keep it going, come what may.
- Friends in unexpected places.
- Children grown enough that they are no longer so tethered to my body – expanding possibilities.
- Turning 40.
- Iridescent feathers on the backs of our chickens.
- Canoeing on still cold water with my daughter.
- Laughing with Levon.
- Bright stars – quiet nights.
- Oh heck, the whole beautiful Living World!
- Learning to crochet.
- Loss, and the learning that comes along with it.
- Creative outlets, any way they come (like the Radical Farmwives blog!).
- Roasted sweet potatoes in three colors – white, purple, and orange. Wow.
- Homemade miso soup with daikon radishes and plenty of garlic on a cold night.
- Bake It Like You Mean It by Gesine Bullock Prado
- Terry Pratchett’s Tiffany Aching series.
- Shakespeare’s The Tempest (movie with Helen Mirren)
- Springsteen’s “High Hopes”
- oh, and a saying: “if its not the chickens, its the feathers”